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Tuesday, 19 June 2018

Love Island- The Bigger Issues

"GOT A TEXT!"



We know the familiar phrases, that familiar tune, the familiar faces we come to love or hate. We know the buzz of excitement we get when we overhear someone open up discussion on an event from the previous night's episode. For the majority of us we have ashamedly fallen hook, line and sinker for this nightly hour of drama and gossip. In a lot of family homes it's usually scheduled for a 7pm sofa sit-down of the Soaps, the familiar line-up of Emmerdale, Coronation Street and Eastenders- the addiction to keeping up with these Soaps is the excitement and anticipation of uncovering what's going to happen next.

I've heard a lot of people from older generations criticize Love Island for being a 'load of rubbish' because it's reality TV but the addiction to shows like this stems from the same addiction the older generation have to the Soaps and there are clear similarities between the two. No matter how much people say they don't enjoy Drama, it's human nature to be fascinated with the stories of other people and the on-goings in other people's lives. Have you ever had a friend message you with hints of gossip from their own life or someone else's and your eagerness to find out becomes borderline desperation. Granted, part of this feeling comes from a place of genuine care for this person but for the most part it is the lack of knowledge that draws us in, the power of new information dangling in front of us is overpowering.

The issue isn't the initial addiction with the drama of Love Island- it's the same as the huge obsession we used to have with Big Brother before it became a Channel 5 disaster. For some reason the idea of watching humans move around like Guinea pigs in the same space every night for an hour is captivating audiences everywhere. The issue for me is the lack of body diversity, in fact the lack of any kind of diversity in the show is quite frankly, disturbing. It's something we should almost certainly be opening up discussion about.

There is a clear lack of representation for marginalised bodies on the show and I think it's important that the producers of the show recognise this and change their casting habits moving forward. Granted, most people applying for the show are people that feel comfortable strutting around in swimwear to the nation for eight weeks but that doesn't take a good body (whatever that means), it takes body confidence and are you honestly going to tell me that out of all those people that applied (fun fact: more people applied for the show this year than people that applied for Oxford) that not one had a body that wasn't able, tanned or toned?

Quoted from the ITV Media website "Proving a massive success with young audiences, regularly capturing a 56% share of 16-34 viewers" 
Given that these are the audience statistics for the show you would think the Casting Directors and Producers of the show wouldn't be so oblivious to the message they are sending out to young people but in fact for another year running we are faced with the same white-washed show. Not only is it incredibly damaging that there is such a poor lack of representation for any body that isn't able, tanned and toned there is also a lack of any kind of diversity at all. The only representation of people of colour are Wes and Josh who are both light-skinned, the only female of colour being Samira.

Why is there ONE black woman on the show? Why are no other ethnicities being included? Why are they all able-bodied? Why are none of the females on the show above a size 6/8? What kind of message is this show trying to send out to it's audiences? The show is not in any way inclusive and I don't understand what their reasoning could possibly be for this. The only excuse I could think of for the show being Heterosexual and therefore not inclusive of sexuality is that the pairing might be difficult to work out, other than this I have no understanding of the selection in contestants.

In my opinion, the message the show is actively sending out is that anything that doesn't fit society's ideals of beauty is wrong. 

I listened to an episode of my favourite podcast this week 'The High Low' as Pandora Sykes and Dolly Alderton also discussed the lack of body diversity on Love Island- "Given that the average size of a woman in the UK is a size 16, this is unrepresentative." All of the contestants on Love Island have bodies that could have easily- as Dolly and Pandora put it- have come straight out of a Hollyoaks calendar- they are completely homogenized. As they also put it if the producers were worried about diversity affecting ratings they would only need to take one look at how much the Nation loves First Dates. First Dates embraces diversity in all its forms- age, sexuality, disability, ethnicity and body diversity. The Nation love this show because it reflects true society and they are able to connect with it, it presents real people. The word real seems silly to use because obviously the contestants on Love Island are real but in my opinion they are not a real and true representation of society.

My favourite quote from Dolly Alderton when they were discussing how slim bodies and body confidence are often intrinsically linked is "It's a viscous cycle because how can people over a size 8 ever have that body confidence if they never see themselves on screens or on pages." The lack of body diversity on the show encourages fat phobia which is something much of the body positive movement have been working tirelessly to diminish for years and shows like this which capture the Nation's attention are choosing to use their power to inflict fear on body types that aren't slim and toned. What's even more baffling is that Love Island are sponsored by Missguided and their new commercial often shown throughout intervals in the show is promoting diversity, how can a brand trying to promote diversity support a show that isn't?

I have noticed a lot of comments on Twitter from younger generations talking about wanting to go on a diet after looking at the bodies of the contestants, making derogatory comments about themselves and how they feel that their body looks bad in comparison. Interestingly, if you look at a lot of these overly re-tweeted comments you will notice that most of the girls in the pictures have very similar body types to those on Love Island and yet they still don't think they are good enough.

Whilst it's perfectly okay to watch what you wish and to enjoy some trash TV from time to time, it is important that we acknowledge and recognise shows like this for what they are. They are not inclusive, they are promoting poor body image and fat phobia, they are not a reflection of true society, they have just selected society's beauty ideals and given them a platform to 'find love'- which is also encouraging a message that anyone other than these ideals is undeserving of love which of course as you all should know, is completely untrue. 

Saturday, 10 March 2018

Weekend In Dublin



Now we all know I will use any excuse to go off travelling somewhere so it was no surprise when me and my friend Soph were sat talking and she sighed those words "I need a break" to which I just said "Ok lets go then?" she laughed and I stayed staring at her like this :) :) :) :) because why does everyone feel the need to make an excuse for travelling? It's so easy to say you can't afford it but it's so easy to make it affordable and to just bloody go. I have ALWAYS wanted to visit Ireland so a mini city break seemed the perfect opportunity. We decided on Dublin there and then.

We booked return flights with RyanAir which cost around £45 this included choosing where we sat because Soph isn't a fan of flying so obvs Hun picked us window seats for the sake of the Vlog! Which you can find here... https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=w56RpIlxotI&t=42s
 #SELFPROMO

We had booked to stay at an Air Bnb which you can find here: https://www.airbnb.co.uk/rooms/21560569. This was my first time using Air Bnb and I was not disappointed! Our place was in Inchicore which took about 20-25 mins by taxi from the airport and was about 10 mins in the taxi to the Temple Bar area. We were 15-20 mins walk from the Guinness storehouse, less than five minutes walk to Kilmainham Jail and the Modern Art Museum and five minutes walk to the memorial gardens. I loved the homely touches of our Air Bnb, the host was so warm and welcoming and she had even left creme eggs on our pillows for our arrival which I thought was the cutest thing!

We arrived into Dublin at around 5pm on the Saturday- our flight was slightly delayed but we were grateful either way as most flights that week had been cancelled due to the snow. When we arrived in Dublin there was snow, sludge and ice EVERYWHERE but it made our little adventure all the more memorable!

After arriving we got a taxi to the Air Bnb and after dropping our bags we had to rush to the Bord Gais Theatre (which is a gorgeous theatre btw!) as we had booked tickets for Cirque Berserk- a show that had incredible performers from all over, it was basically a Circus style show but in a Theatre Venue.




We hadn't eaten prior to the show so afterwards we headed to the Temple Bar area, we found an American diner type place where I had the BEST Amaretto Sour and some prawn, courgette and feta pasta. Probs going against everything I stand for by not having typical Irish food in a typical Irish pub/restaurant whilst visiting Ireland but it was fairly late for food so we just wanted somewhere quick and easy.





Does anyone else find that they are exhausted after a flight??? Between the flight, the long taxi journey, the 30 min walk to the theatre in sludge and ice, the show and then the walk to temple bar we were knackered. The Irish know how to party and the vibe around the temple bar area was amazing but after a couple of cocktails and dinner we were dead to the world. We bought Ice Cream from Cloud Nine which is directly opposite from Temple Bar- their Irish Coffee Ice cream is to DIE for. They also do amazing doughnuts!

 


After this we headed back to our Air Bnb for some much needed sleep and a cup of tea (I know I'm so Rock N Roll). We woke up the next morning very refreshed and ready for a good brunch spot and I honestly couldn't recommend Union 8 enough. It was across the road from our Air Bnb which was extremely handy because Brunch is my fave meal of the day and these guys know how to do a good Brunch and were also the most hospitable people I've ever met!



Coffee, Eggs, Avocado & Mushroom... I mean what more could you possibly want?? Also included fancy cucumber & mint water which they came over several times to top up, these guys were hitting some insane service standards!



We then went for a walk in the snow to the Irish Memorial Gardens which are absolutely gorgeous! We were actually pretty lucky with the snow as it made the gardens all the more beautiful. 


Although it was beautiful to walk around it doesn't take away from the fact that it was absolutely freezing so of course we needed an Irish coffee stop in an Irish pub...



When planning our Dublin trip I asked for recommendations and every man and his dog told us to go to the Guinness storehouse and I loved this experience! It was such a creative way to present people with the process of how it is created, I loved all the effects; the waterfalls, the quotes, the bubbles, the clocks, all the different pieces they used to reflect the process was brilliant. I thoroughly enjoyed walking around and the hosts guiding the experience were great too. Included in the ticket you get a sample Guinness and a pint of Guinness which you can either be shown how to pour yourself or you can go up to the 360 bar and have them pour it for you so we chose to do that because we wanted to see the 360 view of Dublin.








After a busy day the obvious thing to do was to head back to Temple bar for more Gin....




We then finished our day with a meal at La Dolce Vita- an Italian restaurant close to our Air Bnb where I honestly had the most incredible Nutella Fudge Brownie, I highly doubt I've had a dessert that tasted better than this. I have a MASSIVE sweet tooth and this did not disappoint.

 


Our flight home was at 6.30AM the next day and we had to be up at 4AM so although we weren't in Dublin for the longest amount of time we still had the best little adventure, the best food and we met the best people. The taxi drivers there are also something to rave about, they were throwing out recommendations left, right and centre and they were just so sweet!

If you're considering Dublin I would highly recommend it, many people told me how expensive it was but I managed to afford it on a budget (yawn, boring) so if I can you can! Go see the world Huns!

Thanks for reading, H x

Sunday, 28 January 2018

What I Know Now


I'm not Oprah so this isn't gonna be a re-run of her book 'What I Know For Sure' (which is incredible by the way) because I am not yet advanced in my time or wise enough in my years to say I know it all. I'm still learning, evolving, growing and life is beautiful that way.
BUT there is so much I wish my younger self knew which I'm just realising now in my 23rd year that would have saved me so much heartache along the way but I guess our mistakes and errors are the way we learn and what makes us human.

So here it is, what I know now....
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1. Having a man isn't having it all.

There I said it. It's not. I've been engaged to a person that manipulated me for years and I truly believed our love was everything and I was always so afraid to give it up because I felt like a failure when in reality that man didn't have an ounce of respect for me otherwise he wouldn't have treated me the way he did. Secondly, the men I chose to have relationships with always seemed to be too selfish to treat me with respect. I'm not bitter about any of that because they are all lessons learnt and I'm grateful for that because I will never again allow someone to treat me that way. Growing up I went to a girls' school and everyone was having sex and getting into relationships and declaring their undying love and I was so worried I would never find that and when I got my first relationship it was all-encompassing and I couldn't live without him- I'd defo been watching too much SATC. Looking back I created some amazing memories with those people but they were also the people that gave me insecurities that I never bloody needed. Know that this kinda love isn't the love you need to accept. Stop allowing people to treat you in a way that hurts. You matter, your thoughts matter, your heart matters. You are going to be just fine alone, it is okay to be alone, you don't HAVE to have anyone, there is no rush. Say goodbye to people that just want to waste your time. Enjoy the company of those that understand your time is precious. Learn about yourself, learn about the things you want and don't be afraid to ask for them. True love should feel good.

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2. Make meaningful relationships & show the toxic ones the door.

Following on from my first statement... I wasn't trying to say that relationships are awful. They aren't, there were times when I woke up next to the people I've been in relationships with and the sun was lighting their face in a beautiful way and I would get to kiss their face and all would be wonderful- those are the moments I wish for everyone, the moments when you're truly in love with the person. However, what I am trying to say is it is important to know when a relationship is toxic, when that person isn't adding value to your life that's when you need to put yourself first and say "okay, this isn't going to work for me. I wish you well. Goodbye." show them the door, cut all contact, etc etc. If you don't cut all ties you will end up back in their bed and you will resent yourself for it. Know when to say goodbye to people and this comes for all relationships- family, friends, romantic etc etc. Don't be afraid. Your mental well-being should always be number one. Learn to prioritise your damn self. The relationships and friendships you have should be meaningful, they should blossom with time, you should admire each other, build each other up, show compassion, be grateful. Know the difference.


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3. Ambition is everything, don't let the opinions of others prevent you from reaching your goals

I wasted far too much of my time worrying about what others had to say about me. You know you better than anybody else. I spent a full 18 months following my graduation living in a dull city, working in a role I really didn't care for all because I wanted to show that I could have it all. Look at me I'm a manager, look at me I have my own flat etc etc. All i've ever wanted to do is act and it took me until a couple of months ago to realise that I needed to take the steering wheel of my own life otherwise my life was going to ride on by without me being present for any of it. You're not a robot, don't live as one. Find what you love, the things that set your soul on fire and do them, work hard for them. There is a big difference in working hard for something you love and working hard for something you hate, remember that.


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4. What people have to say about you is none of your business

Seriously though, when people talk shit about you it speaks volumes about their own character, not yours. Going to a girls high school meant that bitchiness, nasty remarks, gossip etc were encouraged by your peers. I used to be a little bitch for it because that's all I knew, I was bullied in high school and when the girl finally left me to it I talked shit about other people. I can't imagine being that person any longer. I would say I resent that version of myself but she was clueless, she was taught by her peers that that's the way to be. It's not. What you give off to the universe will always come back to you. Give out positive vibes, spread love, it's not that deep.


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5. Stop comparing yourself- our life clocks are all different

One of the best things I've ever read is "Don't compare your chapter one to someone else's chapter twenty" that will stay with me forever. In the last year I have learnt the impact this can have on you. One of my best friends moved to London and got herself an amazing job at a media company and she gets to go to amazing events, shows, brunches, cocktail evenings etc. Another of my closest friends graduates this year and already has some amazing job offers lined up. Another one of my besties got Assistant General Manager at the gym- her dream job and this all happened within the same few months whilst I was leaving my own flat to move back into my mom's house, going from a full- time management role to a part-time waitress etc. All I kept doing was comparing myself. I was applying for jobs and hearing nothing back or getting rejected and all I wanted to do was cry. Watching my friends achieve so many amazing things and feeling like an utter failure. That's not the way to be. I started putting effort into all the things I want to do with my time. I found acting classes, I found myself acting jobs and auditions, I found dance classes I want to attend, I found places I want to visit soon, I started making plans. I'm still nowhere near where I wish to be but I've stopped worrying about what everyone else is doing and focusing on myself and it feels so good when you just take the pressure off. My friends are incredible and they deserve to enjoy all of their achievements that they have worked their asses off and some day I too will get to feel the happiness from my own achievements. Once you take that pressure off, everything feels so much lighter.

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6. Looks are never and will never be everything

Embrace your differences that's what makes you special. Aim for good health and happiness. Focus on your qualities as a person as you do with others. Criticizing the way you look isn't going to bring an ounce of goodness to you. If you allow your mind to become crowded with negative thoughts about yourself that gives you no room for the good stuff, the things that are important. Work on building your perspective, travel often, meet as many different individuals as you can so you can see that the world isn't just black & white. That nobody cares what dress size you are, what matters is the way you treat others and the way you treat yourself. Work on character building and learning about what you love and you will begin to see the greatness in who and how you are.


And last but by no means least....  life is short. Love each other. Make memories. Listen to each other. Care. Be grateful. Be kind. Cut the negativity. More self-care. Less drama. Don't let opinions of others cloud your judgement. Make your own opinions. Don't waste time doing things you don't like just to impress others. If you hate a TV show that someone recommended you know how to use a remote right? So turn it off. Use that remote for everything you need to. Turn the volume down on the bullshit and turn on the positivity. There truly is beauty in the world if you choose to see it.


Thanks for reading, H x

Friday, 12 January 2018

Sunshine Blogger Award


I can't believe how long it's been since I last did a blog post! I am for sure going to make it a goal for 2018 to get myself back to blogging again. I know some of you are eye-rolling at me bringing back the ramblings but I'm here to stay HUNS.
I also now have a Vlogging channel for even more ramblings which you can find here.
The reason I came on here today was because yesterday I was nominated by two people for the Sunshine Blogger award which is so dope!!! I was nominated by the beautiful Louise Wilkinson, you can find her blog post here. I was also nominated by my lovely friend Jess Packman and you can find her post here.
I am so grateful that they thought I would be a good nomination, I love knowing that people appreciate my writing, my vlogs, my blogs etc. I've always been very creative and being a creative person you receive a lot of knock-backs so when you get to hear good things it's always extremely uplifting!

Without further ado I am going to answer a set of the questions I was sent...


1. What is your favourite thing to blog about?

I love to blog about my travels. Travelling is so good for the soul and I am always at my happiest when I'm travelling. I love writing about the places I have visited because most of the time when I go travelling I look at other people's Instagrams & Blog posts to find any recommendations (especially for food places).

2. If you could be any celebrity for a day who would it be and why?

I would love to step into the shoes of Shonda Rhimes for a day. She is a huge inspiration to me, she has wrote so many incredible things including some of my favourite series 'Greys Anatomy' and 'How To Get Away With Murder'. I would love to see all the behind the scenes stuff.


3. What is your favourite film to watch?

My favourite film is A little bit of heaven- Kate Hudson is up there with one of my favourite actors EVER. Although the film is pretty sad it's actually strangely a feel good film, she plays the character Marley in such a wonderful way that you just want to be her free-spirited self.

4. Describe 3 things which would make a day perfect?

Good food (obviously), sunshine because it makes every day better and good company- you can't beat those people in your life that make you laugh until your belly aches.

5. If you could do one thing to change the world what would it be?

I would ensure everybody had a clean, comfortable home. It breaks my heart that there are people all over the world sleeping so uncomfortably and children living in environments so filthy that it can potentially cause death.

6. What is your favourite social media outlet and why?

I have a love/hate relationship with Instagram. Some days it makes me feel crap about myself but I have found a ton of women on there that are incredibly empowering and I LOVE hearing their stories.

7. What made you write your first blog post?

I was initially going to use this blog to post my writing pieces on and then I used it to share advice because a few people had asked about my fitness journey and then it became about a variety of things.

8. What is one thing you want to achieve in 2018?

I want to leave hospitality. I quit my job at the end of 2017 as part of management in a restaurant because it was something I got caught up in, I love the people I get to work with but acting is something I want to pursue and I have done one project this year already and I have auditions so I hope if I keep pushing some good will come of it!

9. Name your favourite youtuber and why?

I can't just name one! I love Zoella's day in the life videos which is especially why I love her Vlogmas. The way her, her close friends and family celebrate occasions is just lovely, they really value each other and I think that's important. I also love Elle Darby SO much. She is so down to earth and she's bloody hilarious.

10. What is your favourite animal?

It's a tough one. I have my cat Kovu and although he's a little shit he is so beautiful and he comes and sits with me quietly like a little furry pal. However, I went to Thailand this year and spent a day with Elephants and I just think they are magnificent.

11. If you could change one thing in your life what would it be?

I would have pursued my dreams much sooner and stopped listening to others. You know you better than anyone.


The Sunshine Blogger Award is such a good idea to spread positivity amongst the blogging community and to share the amazing work of people just starting out. We all deserve a platform to share our voices and they all deserve to be heard. The Sunshine Blogger award is awarded to people that are ‘inspirational through their positivity and creativity in the blogging community’. Thank you Louise & Jess for nominating me.
If you have been nominated by me, please follow the rules below:
  1. Say thank you in your blog post to the blogger who has nominated you, and link back to their blog.
  2. Answer the 11 questions the blogger asked you.
  3. Nominate 11 new blogs to receive the award and write them 11 new questions.
  4. List the rules and display the Sunshine Blogger Award logo in your post and/or on your blog.

The people I nominate are some amazing women and here are their Instagrams:

@sophfarsogood
@katykookaboro
@charlottedoddx
@theduchjess
@thelayoverlife
@aliceandpeanutbutter
@caitmeredith
@lilandlife
@lifethroughemseyes
@nickichanlam
@jessgearyx

And my questions are:

1) If you could say one thing to your younger self, what would it be?
2) If you could vote anyone to be President who would it be?
3) What is your favourite book & why?
4) What is it that made you start your blog?
5) If you could have any job in the world, what would it be?
6) Name a place you would love to travel to and why
7) Name an experience that has really empowered you
8) Your favourite brunch spot and what do you order? (I love food, sorry)
9) 3 things that help you to relax
10) A song that makes you want to dance round in your pants
11) 3 TV series you would encourage anyone and their dog to watch


Tag me so I can read all of your blog posts!
Happy sunshine day!
H x


Wednesday, 22 November 2017

Travel blog- Barcelona bitches


 Barcelona

I was really sceptical about Barcelona. Before we had even travelled to Madrid I truly believed I would prefer Barcelona to Madrid and that Madrid would be incredibly boring in comparison. I don't know where I had even got the assumption from. I was pleasantly surprised by Madrid and I absolutely loved it. 
Barcelona was amazing but for anyone that has only thought of visiting Barcelona, there are other places that are just as amazing that you really should experience.
When we landed in Barcelona we got the airport bus to Las Ramblas which was close to where we were staying. It was also close to where the attack happened. We met our host at Hard Rock Cafe so he could show us directly to the hostel which was really kind of him. I had to stop and take a picture of the memorial people had created as it was so beautiful. 

We stayed at the Poprooms hostel just off La Rambla, it was in a secure building, we were upstairs and the apartment itself was really clean and cute. There was a shared bathroom which was always kept clean, a kitchen which we didn't end up using and we had our own bedroom. It was cheap, clean and a really decent place to stay for friends and the host was incredibly friendly and helpful.


Our first evening we spent walking down La Rambla so we could explore the different shops, restaurants, get an idea of our surroundings and also have a look at the port. We found an amazing restaurant/bar called Ultramarinos which had the best vibe. Good music, graffiti'd walls and funky interior and the biggest jugs of sangria. I WISH i had kept the pictures of my food as it was absolutely insane. I selected a few tapas dishes but the best thing I had was the fried aubergine with goats cheese & honey. GIVE ME LIFE.
We also went to another bar that night which was also on La Rambla which had a really friendly atmosphere and the bartenders just kept handing everyone shots and encouraging people to talk to each other which was so refreshing when we live in an age where everyone is glued to their phones.
 








Now, lets once again talk about food. For anyone that knows me you know how much I love my food. Whenever I travel anywhere I always read up about the best places to visit but without a doubt I will always research the best things to eat. We spent the second day exploring the sights and most days we didn't eat lunch, we would fill up on breakfast in the mornings and then get so caught up with exploring that we wouldn't end up having lunch so we would get a snack and then go out for dinner. This was the 'snack' we found the second day in Barcelona. We found the cutest little bakery that seemed to be pretty busy quite close to Park Guell with one woman running it we went in and saw lots of locals which is always a good sign. Emma loves bread so she was in love straightaway and got herself a baguette and I got myself an empanada to try and we each got one of these bad boys. These are like a doughnut crossed with an egg custard. They are called Rosquillas and they are alike to doughnuts but they are more dense and have a cake-like consistency, they are also a taste of heaven that you HAVE to try.

On our second day we got a ticket for the hop on/hop off bus. Throughout Barcelona there are so many incredible buildings and so much great architecture that I was mesmerised. We got to visit Sagrada Familia, we didn't end up going inside as the tickets were pretty expensive but it is definitely a must-see building, even if its just to stare up at it for a solid five minutes. We then went on to visit Park Guell which is free except for a certain part, I would have liked to have visited this part but we tried to keep things as cheap as possible so we could experience as much as possible and honestly we saw so much for free that it was definitely worthwhile anyway. The park was full of artists and odd street performers including a man that was playing a guitar topless with a skirt on wearing a Lion's mane and meowing....my kinda party.

Also you could see for miles from Park Guell which was defo crucial for the Gram.



There was so much artwork and quirky monuments throughout Barcelona that I couldn't stop taking pictures and I don't think I walked in a straight line once because I was in awe of everything. We walked past one building which was open and I couldn't see any signs of the artist or price tags or anything but this one building was just exhibiting the most amazing pieces of art and thats what I loved so much about Spain, it is bursting with culture.






Nothing to see here except more food and sangria....
This was one of the best places to eat. Again, it was on La Rambla but being the piece of shit I am I can't for the life of me remember the name but the owners were so lovely and friendly. We got an amazing deal for Sangria, a sharing paella and tapas to start and it was a DREAM.




Okay Huns if you know me and know my love for Eggs Benedict you will know I almost lost. my. SHIT. at the sight of this baby.... ooooh lord. BENEDICT BRUNCH BISTRO BAR. You fucking heard me people this is not a drill. This beautiful little brunch bar we found by ACCIDENT. Can you imagine my delight??? They had at least TEN different versions of eggs benedict on the menu, I almost passed out. I got the Italian eggs benedict which had mozzarella, tomato and pesto on it. Sweet freaking lord it was good and it came with house hash so if you want to go have the best food baby OF YOUR LIFE be my guest and go asap Rocky.



We spent a couple of our days in Barcelona relaxing our blistered feet at the beach. We bought a giant funky little sheet for about 8 euros from a man by the beach to use as something to lie on and we had ourselves a free little lounger. There were so many beach bars along the beach and the waiters walk around with trays of mojitos and sangrias that you can buy if you wish. One day we bought sangria and nachos and it was the best because we didnt even have to move from being the sloths that we are. I also had to post this picture because I remember feeling so self-conscious about my body when I first got there because I wasn't ripped and I wasn't in the best shape i'd ever been in but you know what? You're not on holiday to look like America's next top model, you're there for the EXPERIENCE, the memories you will make that will last a lifetime, we are here for a good time not a long time am i right??? Love your body Huns in all its forms.









You know when you have those moments in life where you and your friend have a dead good idea that isn't actually a good idea at all but neither of you have a brain cell between you?? Well this was it...all for the memories Huns. We went to the 'Jamon experience'....what we actually wanted was a wine tasting experience but some idiot on Google led us here. So we learnt about how the spanish make ham in the strangest interactive experience i think i'll ever have in my life, we wore headphones whilst walking around weird windows that lit up with a projector showing a video or lit up with weird moving models and god knows what else whilst listening to how ham is made. We then went to a room and were given a plate of different hams with ONE glass of wine and we had to sit there and taste them all. I mean I don't even like ham that much so I dunno what I was thinking but it was an experience to say the least....



I now present to you all the TEQUILA BAR. If a bar has a neon 'tequila' sign you bet your bottom dollar I am going in and I am taking a picture. It wasn't busy at all in here which made me so sad cos I would have loved it to be full of people dancing on the bars like Coyote Ugly and shotting Tequilas left, right and centre but it just wasn't. SO CAN WE ALL COLLECTIVELY AGREE TO MAKE THIS HAPPEN....OK THANKS.





 This was also another amazing bar in the Gothic Quarter which is well worth a visit, the interior was beaut and the Espresso Martinis were unreal!!!











 Our final night was spent at Font Magica in Montjuic which was FREE and probably one of the best nights I've had. We bought a bottle of Sangria from a local shop, took plastic cups and got drunk whilst watching an incredible show. I honestly can't believe it was free as it honestly was amazing. We sang and danced and laughed and it was honestly the best thing we could have done to end our trip.






 Now we all know if my face is this happy it can only mean one thing....food. The magic fountain show started around 8pm and we didn't end up leaving it until around 10pm, we had been given a recommendation for this place and honestly it was the BEST food I had the whole trip. It was called La Tasqueta De Blai and it is only a five/ten minute walk from the magic fountain which was perfect for on our walk home. You find a seat, order a drink, take a plate and a shot glass and then load up on all the goodies!! You take as much food as you want- the normal sticks are worth one euro and the other sticks are worth say one euro 50. When you finish each thing you pop the stick in the shot glass and at the end the waitress counts up the sticks and that is the bill you pay, amazing right? The food here was honestly incredible, we had major food babies here and it was well worth every single bloody bite.




Honestly I can't believe how long it's took me to finish writing about this trip because it really was one of the best trips i've ever been on. It was an amazing experience from the food to the culture to the people to the sights to the sangria I honestly couldn't recommend Barcelona and Madrid enough.

Hope you enjoyed reading. H x






Tuesday, 10 October 2017

Travel Blog- Madrid

Trip to Spain Part 1- Madrid

I'm just going to be real with you all, Madrid might honestly be my FAVOURITE city in the world...so far. I mean I'm probably being dramatic, there are still plenty more places for my exploring ass to visit but right now Madrid well and truly has my heart. I could live there and be the happiest lil Hun ever. Just waiting for my Hollywood acting job to sweep me up and I will buy myself a place there for sure! From the incredible views to the beautiful architecture to the delicious food I can honestly not recommend it enough, Madrid is a MUST VISIT!

Planning the trip 

One of my bestest friends of all time- Emma- asked me if we could book a holiday together for a week during September, she had seen me being a little Dora the explorer in Thailand on social media and wanted a trip of a similar kind as she was very used to just beach holidays so we agreed that we would go on a trip that was affordable but meant we could combine exploring whilst still being somewhere with good weather. We chose Spain and decided to plan Madrid and Barcelona within one week, we booked a flight from Manchester to Madrid and decided we would spend the Friday until the Monday in Madrid and then we had a flight booked from Madrid to Barcelona and then we would spend Monday to Friday in Barcelona and then fly home from there. This was honestly one of the best trips I have ever, ever been on. We had SO much fun.





Hostel Helena, Madrid 


For couples and families I understand the idea of a hostel is unthinkable but for two friends we decided a hostel was the perfect way to keep it affordable and to be honest I am SO glad we chose to stay in a hostel. We had the most incredible view from our hostel that I genuinely wondered if anywhere had a better view in comparison. Our hostel was right in the centre of Madrid which gave us easy access to all transport including the airport bus and we were completely immersed in the bustling city surrounded by shops, bars and restaurants. We were in the perfect spot to get anywhere and we saw most of the sights there were to see by foot.
For a cheap place to stay with the most beautiful view, I would highly recommend staying here. One night we decided before going to watch a flamenco show we would buy a cheap bottle of wine and snacks and chill on our terrace and watch the sunset and this was the view I managed to capture.







Things to do
Okay, there honestly was NEVER a dull moment in Madrid. Our feet almost fell off because we walked around so much and my feet were sooo blistered & gross, it was disgusting. Just keeping it real people. But there was so much to do! I never ever wanted to leave.        
                                                                                                                        Parque Madrid Rio
So for anyone that knows me you know I love to be a lil active Hun, I can't stay still for too long or I get really bored so aswell as spending days on end walking around the city in awe of all the beautiful buildings and scenery we managed to sneak in an hour of cycling on these cute bikes we hired. (The story behind these bikes is actually that Google maps mugged us off for a solid four hours whilst we wandered aimlessly trying to find a park then to wander around the park trying to find the place that did bike rentals, only to then find it following two wine stops, YES TWO.)

 










Just to prove to you all how gorgeous this City is and how much there is to do, see and of course my fave thing ever- EAT- here are some pictures I took whilst we were being Dora the explorers.





The most amazing outdoor book shop
One of many street performers





The royal palace & gardens




Almudena Cathedral








Parque Del Retiro



Yaaaaasss this gorgeous park had a beautiful lake that we could rent a boat on for 45 minutes for about £6, absolute BARGS.




 The most famous churros shop in Madrid







Kilometre Zero- marks the official time in Spain according to Urban legend







 The most amazing flamenco show in the cutest bar






Because food is the best freaking thing to explore in new countries...








Yes, we found a cat cafe...


This was honestly the cutest place ever, we paid around 4 euros each to spend an hour here (the price also includes a hot drink which is accompanied with little chocolates) all the cats had been rescued and had some form of disability, they all just wanted some love and as you can all imagine I wanted to stay there forever.


The literary quarter






This was just the cutest area, the floors were filled with famous Spanish literature quotes, there were lots of little bars and cafes with beautiful interiors that you can imagine writers sitting on their stools with their espressos or glasses of red wine and writing the next best novel (I have a vivid imagination okay) and also a HUGE theatre that unfortunately wasn't advertising jobs or you know Hun would be straight in there applying.




 One of the nights we spent dancing away at a Spanish club which was really close to our hostel, we walked into a space that was a gym in the day but had a room converted into a club in the evening, they had a live band on aswell as a DJ and everyone was literally salsa dancing which was my absolute FAVE so I was completely in my element, no ugly weird grinding or creepy boys over here, just good fun and dancing old school style, just the way I love it.






Museo Nacional Del Prado

Emma might disagree but this was one of the most amazing cultural experiences I've ever had. This museum was HUGE and Emma being the massive con artist that she is managed to get us in for free! They said if you were students you got in for free and it mentioned being between the ages of 18 and 25 so we informed the girl at the ticket office we were students between those ages and we had our passports to prove our age but we didn't have our student ID's because we were from English Universities so the girl asked if we had any emails from our university. Emma is still at University so she showed markings for her work, however I just showed a simple marketing email from my University that said "Fast track your PG application" and it worked! Having looked around the museum, I would personally say it would be worth the money were you to pay it.



And of course I can't not mention the beautiful Hun that helped make this whole trip possible, we had the most incredible time exploring and drinking sangria and eating and chatting and laughing and dancing, we did not stop the whole time. She has been my best friend since we were five years old and I'm so glad we got to make more memories together in this beautiful City!




I will be following this blog with another post on the beautiful Barcelona where we spent the second half of the week. However Madrid is definitely up there with one of my favourite ever cities, it was just incredible and I could honestly not recommend it enough.

Thanks for reading lovelies x